Wow it's Monday and guess what?
I just walked out from our office because some unreasonable
colleague had ruined my day!
No. Not just ruined.. He made me blew my top because of a stupid missed call!
Yes, he got pissed because I missed his call last friday and now making a big deal out of it so bad that I got fed up and walked away!
Even told me to change my attitude, etc.
(Ok Lord please, whatever it is please change me for the good of all)
He doesn't want to accept my explanation either and went on blah blah blah..nag..nag..nag as if I did an unpardonable crime.
You see, I have been putting up with this person sooo much for a very long time already.. But this time, he did it!
In a company, I know we hate or dislike some people but I gotta tell you, this person is different! You will need a 2 year Anger Management course to keep up with him.
Pause..
Breathe in...
Breathe out..
Does this event sound familiar?
Someway or another in our waking life, we'd experience something like this.
You see, dealing with people is not easy.
You need to smile alot..be nice, good, kind, understanding enough, go with the flow,and if you happen to have all these qualities in you..
Then you're cool!
People are people. No matter how much you dislike or hate them,
You can't change them at once with just a snap of a finger.
You cannot change the world either. Nor you can change your colleague or boss. There's no way they're going to change for you also.
So frustrating right??
Have you watched the Anger Management movie with Adam Sandler?
Well, welcome to the real world!
If you have extra $$ to spend you can attend and listen to some experts about Anger Management and be inspired. Or buy an Anger Management how to books and do your own readings, feel good for a liitle while and smile. But the downside of resorting to this kind of help is that, it actually won't last ! It's temporary. Been there. Done that!
Now, I have a better and easier way of handling this:
----- Just give it all to Jesus!
Yesssss!
Jesus has taught me to rest in Him no matter what that even if right now
I am so freakin mad, I am still able to write this down..(with a smile.:)
One simple technique in dealing with this kind of situation is....
just say,
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
"JESUS is my patience!!!!"
There you go!
Honestly, I don't know how many times I've said this.. But it doesn't matter.
It helps..and it's healthier this way.
I have used this as my facebook status. And have flooded my twitter
because...
It feels good!!
Yeaaah!
It is sooooooo liberating!!
Wheeeew!
Plus, I spoke in tongues too!
(speaks in tongues)
"JESUS is my patience" mantra + Speaking in Tongues = total peace!
I think I will keep doing this ...
There's power in the name of Jesus!
Thank you Jesus!
halleluyaaaaah!!
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